Then the usual responses played out…
The stares. The looks. The awkwardness. The judgement.
I felt completely alone.
Maybe you've been there too?
Not that exact floor, of course. But your version.
The 2am start when your child decides the night is over.
The school meeting where you have to explain your child to the people who are supposed to help them.
The scan you perform every time you arrive somewhere new - exits, sounds, lights - before anyone has even sat down.
There's no part of your day this doesn't touch. The beautiful highs and the tricky lows too. It's all there from the moment you wake to when that heavy head hits the pillow at night.
Join The Unfinished Community
It’s a question I’ve asked myself more times than I can count.
Because I'm not observing this life from the outside. I'm in it, with you.
After a particularly draining school meeting - an hour spent fighting to be believed about my own child - I got in the car and messaged a group of mums I knew.
Within minutes, my phone was lighting up. Not with advice. Not with solutions. Just - I know. I've been there. You're not on your own with this.
That WhatsApp group grew into something none of us expected. A place where you didn’t have to explain yourself, translate your child, or hold it together. Where someone always got it - because they were living it too.
That's what Unfinished became.
No backstory needed. No translating your child - your choices, your chaos welcomed!
Someone here has calculated that exact same yes or no. Sat in that school meeting with that same feeling in their chest. Been awake at that same hour with that same thought.
The wins that nobody in your real life quite gets - people here are waiting to celebrate those with you. The days that break you - people here have had them too.
You start to know what to do next. Not because someone handed you a generic checklist - but because the answers here are built for neurodivergent family life.
Your nervous system gets to settle. And when you're steadier, the whole house feels it.
You stop feeling like a problem. You start feeling like a mum who has been carrying something big - and who now has a community to support her with it.
Because I know you’re probably not here for you (although we are!). You're here because you love your child fiercely - and you want to show up for them in the best way you can.
Rage about the school meeting if you need to. Cry about the meltdown. Ask the question you've been sitting on for weeks.
You find your people
This is an always-on space that lives in your pocket. Discussion threads, a rant and rage page, wins, questions, and the kind of radical honesty you can't find anywhere else. Available at 11pm when the day has tested you. Silent when you need it to be.
Post the break-through that feels huge - people here will actually get it!
Dip in whenever you need it, and leave when life calls you back.
A steady place to land when you need it most.
45 minutes that ripples through the rest of your week
Your body gets a moment to stop bracing
A monthly 45-minute breathwork and meditation session called The Exhale. The most attended call in the community - and the one members say they didn't know they needed until they did it!
A grounding experience for your nervous system
When you feel better, everyone at home feels it too.
You tell me what you need - I bring in the relevant expert
My library of practical resources - scripts for school emails, sensory play ideas, trigger tracking guides and much more - pick up and use the same day
You leave knowing exactly what to try next
Monthly expert calls, Ask Me Anything sessions and practical guides.
New resources added throughout the year - so the support grows with you
Replays available if life gets in the way
The validation, by Greer, that what I was feeling was okay, as well as all of the suggestions and advice that I feel I will be able to use, not just in my role as parent.
You trust yourself more in the moments that matter.
Greer gave great examples of resources to try. She went above and beyond finding information to help with school support.
Small, warm, often no agenda
Come when you're ready - there's no pressure to show up before you are
Your community becomes your friends
Monthly coffee chats where you get to talk, not just type. Put a name to a face. Go a little deeper. The difference between knowing someone is out there and actually feeling it.
The place where community becomes something real
CANCEL ANYTIME. NO QUESTIONS ASKED.
It’s designed to meet you exactly where you are.
Drop in and someone already knows what you’re going through.
You're done doing this alone.
You're raising a child you know - or think might be neurodivergent. You don't need to have a diagnosis. You don't need to be at any particular stage of the journey.
You're the one who's already calculated the cost of saying yes before they’ve even finished asking.
You've probably tried other things that didn't quite fit. Too generic. Too neurotypical. Too much like nobody in the room truly understood you or your child.
I'm a Certified Neuro-affirming Parent Coach, podcast host and have a degree in child education and development. But more importantly - I've had hundreds of conversations with mamas just like you, and I've been living this life alongside you for years.
Autistic ADHD son. Autistic husband. My own ADHD. Another little one keeping us on our toes. Our house is never boring!
I was told I was a bad parent once a week by my son's nursery for a time. And for a while - because I didn't know any better yet - I believed them.
I know the "I can't do this today" moments. The survival mode so deep you've forgotten what steady even feels like.
Slowly, through everything I experienced, came the tools, the knowledge, and the community to build a home that works with our neurodivergence, not against it.
That's what The Unfinished Community is - everything that helped, gathered in one place, for you.
Because this life can feel lighter, joyful, and a whole lot less lonely. That's what I'm here for.
Cheering you on, every step of the way.
01 - Join and land softly
The moment you're in, you'll get a short welcome video from me walking you through everything - so you know exactly where to go and what's waiting for you, without a single moment of overwhelm.
02 - Download the app and let it come to you
Add the Skool app to your phone (super simple) - so you never have to remember to show up, carve out time, or add another thing to your mental load. Your best friend in your back pocket, whenever you need it!
03 - Dip in however works for you right now
Lurk in the threads. Show up to The Exhale breathwork session. Post the question you've been sitting on for weeks - so that slowly, without it even being the point, something shifts. You stop feeling like the only one. You start feeling steadier.
For the tired, full-brain days when your body won't switch off. A guided audio to help you slow your thoughts, release tension and calm your nervous system. Perfect for evenings, overwhelm moments, or whenever you just need to exhale.
25 quick, simple resets for the moments everything feels too much. Designed for your nervous system - but works just as well for your child's. The go-to list for when you need something to try right now.
Free access to my neurodivergent parenting summit - worth $97.
Plus the full VIP Thrive Toolkit, including live Q&A and coffee chat sessions, year-long access to the summit replay (instead of the standard 48 hours), the Calm Mama Toolkit, unwind audios and speaker bonuses - worth $1,500.
Total value: $1,597 - yours completely free when you join annually.
The Summer Audio and The Micro-Resets Checklist (as above)
2 months free.
Everything in the monthly option, plus your three April bonuses (The Summer Audio + The Micro-Resets Checklist + Free Summit Access and VIP Thrive Toolkit)
Mamas who genuinely get it
More calm in your body over time
Per month
No tie-ins. No pressure. Cancel anytime - with no questions asked.
Support, answers, and a space that actually understands your world - whenever you need it.
Full access to The Community, The Calm, The Clarity and The Connection.
Plus your two April bonuses (The Summer Audio + The Micro-Resets Checklist)
roughly £20
roughly £201
That's $22.50 A Month
You might have had a stressful day. Maybe the kind where you held it together just long enough for everyone else to fall asleep - and now here you are, still searching. Still trying to figure out how to make tomorrow slightly easier.
I get it. I've been there (still am there sometimes!).
You don't need another promise that everything will be fixed. You just need somewhere people already understand. A place where tomorrow feels a little less like something you're facing alone.
We're in here cheering you on. Walking alongside you. Every single step.
You don’t need to keep holding all of this on your own anymore.
Then you cancel - no questions, no guilt, no tie-in. But I'd gently say this: most mamas who join surprise themselves. You don't have to be ready to show up. You just have to be ready to stop doing this completely alone. I'm cheering you on either way!
I hear this one a lot - and honestly, it's exactly why I built this the way I did. There's no schedule to keep up with, no modules to work through, no falling behind. The community is there when you need it and quiet when you don't. Download the app, get a notification when something relevant lands, dip in for five minutes at 11pm if that's all you've got. Even one conversation, one tool, one exhale call a month can shift how a whole week feels.
This isn't something new to keep up with. It's somewhere to put it all down. No complicated onboarding process, no homework, no performing. Just a warm welcome video from me, the app on your phone, and a community that's ready when you are. Come as you are. That's it.
Every child is different. Every family is different. That's exactly why the expert calls are often chosen by the mamas inside - so what we cover actually reflects your reality. And the community is full of mums at every stage of this journey, with children of all ages and needs. If you recognise your life in these pages, you're in the right place.
Everything lives inside Skool - a simple, app-based membership platform. The moment you join you'll get access and I'd recommend downloading the app straight away so the community comes to you. No logging into websites, no hunting for links. It's all in one place, right in your pocket.
Every call is recorded and the replay goes straight into the community - so you never miss out. Watch it on the school run, during naptime, or at 11pm. The calls are designed to fit around your life, not the other way around.
Absolutely. You don't need a diagnosis to join. If you've started to notice your child experiences the world differently, you've had that conversation with school, or you’re anywhere else along the way - you belong here.
Calls are at 1pm or 8pm UK time - and the great news is the Skool app automatically translates the time into your local timezone, so you'll always see calls in your own time. You can find all upcoming calls in the calendar tab in Skool.